Understanding your desires is the first step towards a more fulfilling life. What do you truly want? This question holds the key to unlocking your potential and living a life that aligns with your sou

Step 1

Come to realize what you truly want.

In my books, I go to great lengths to help the reader understand the importance of this piece of the puzzle. Consider how simple the question is: What do you want? Few people know the answer to this valuable question. Why is answering this question truthfully and entirely so important?

I will address the last question in some considerable detail later, but for now, consider two things: one, people chase after things in search of a particular feeling without really thinking about or knowing what they want, which is to feel a certain way. So, they chase without fully understanding what they are pursuing and why. Second, people often fail to realize that nothing external to us is capable of influencing our feelings in any particular way; feelings are entirely internal. Everything we need is already within us. All emotions come from within, good and bad, including fear, anger, stress, anxiety, and the whole lot—more on this to come.

Unfortunately, most people don’t want to hear these things. Instead, they want to enjoy; they want to chase happiness, thinking their way is better, and if they keep pursuing things, they will be happy one day. Seeking things to make one comfortable never works out in the long term.

Step one is a highly overlooked piece of the overall life puzzle, and by that, it will take some time to bring the importance of this piece into complete focus for you, so that you may appreciate the options that lie at your feet. There’s much more to come, and remember, you are the driver of your growth and happiness. Please be sure to check or sign up for our mailing list to receive the latest news and updates.

After you break everything down, you realize that all life pursuits are part of a quest for a feeling. Unfortunately, the quest becomes entangled with other perceptions and, in some cases, is distorted by the ego, leading to a misguided pursuit of perfection, which ultimately takes one down a path away from happiness. Happiness is the answer.

Step 2

Begin to understand that there is a second level to wanting. The first level is traditional wants. We all grew up being more or less programmed to see certain things as norms. There is another level of wanting, which is more profound, and that is growing in the understanding of what your soul desires. The latter is a whole different level, void of material things.

I know these are broad and far-reaching topics. That is why I’ve dedicated this website to exploring and writing books on these topics and other related areas.

Step 3

Accept that all you have been and ever wish to be begins in the mind. This is an undeniable truth; think about it.